For Those Who Want to Change: From the Created Self to the Creator Self

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You might be feeling like you want to change something in your life but aren’t sure where to start. Maybe you feel uncertain or even overwhelmed by the idea of transformation.

This article is here to gently support you in your journey of change, to help you embrace the deep desire within you to live more authentically.
Consider it a message that blends spirituality and practicality, guiding you to create a life that truly resonates with your heart.

◆ It’s Okay to Be Just As You Are: Take a Moment to Pause

Before we dive deeper, let me start by reminding you of something incredibly important.

You are perfect just as you are right now.

In a world filled with voices telling us we need to improve, grow, or succeed, it's easy to forget this fundamental truth.
We often find ourselves trying to meet others' expectations, believing that we must change in order to be loved or accepted.

But the reality is, just by existing, you already have immense value.
You don’t need to change, achieve, or strive in any way to be worthy.
You are already complete, as you are.

So, for now, give yourself permission to simply be.
Take a moment and allow yourself to exist in this present moment, fully as you are, without needing to prove anything.

◆ The Urge to Change: A Signal From Your Soul

However, even with this acceptance of who we are, there are moments when an urge stirs deep within us:

"Is this really all there is to life?"
"I want to live more authentically."
"I want to change."

This desire is not random.
It’s a call from your soul, a sign that it’s time to move from being someone who has been shaped by external forces,
to becoming someone who actively shapes their own life.

This moment, when you feel the desire to change, is not to be feared.
It’s the beginning of a new journey, a journey where you are transitioning from a "created self" to a "creator self."

◆ What Does “Created Self” Mean?

As children, we are shaped by the influences around us—our parents, teachers, culture, and society.
We are told what is right, how we should behave, and what is expected of us. Over time, we internalize these external messages and begin to live according to others' standards.

• "Be a good person and you'll be loved."

• "You must meet expectations to prove your worth."

• "Don’t upset others or cause trouble."

These beliefs, while often well-meaning, can sometimes suppress our true selves.
We start living not as our authentic selves but as the version of ourselves that fits into society’s molds.

But is this really the life we want?
Can we truly find fulfillment by living according to someone else's rules?

◆ Moving Toward the “Creator Self”

The "creator self" is the version of you who is no longer bound by external expectations.
It’s the you who listens to their inner voice, who is free to design a life that truly aligns with who they are.
This path is full of freedom, power, and creativity, as you embrace the ability to shape your own reality.

But here’s an important distinction to make:

"Changing" does not mean rejecting the current version of yourself.
In fact, it’s about fully accepting yourself as you are, and from that acceptance, natural change will unfold.

You don’t have to force yourself to change.
You don’t need to feel pressure to become someone else.
Instead, when the desire to change arises, simply listen to it without fear or hesitation.

◆ The Freedom to Create: It’s Your Choice

So, how do we begin the process of becoming the creator of our own lives?

The answer is simple.

The first step is to turn inward and truly listen to your own feelings.
Pay attention to your emotions, as they are messages from your soul.

Emotions—whether happiness, sadness, joy, or frustration—hold the keys to understanding what your soul truly desires.
When you feel these emotions, they are showing you the direction you need to go.

Start small.
Take a few moments each day to close your eyes, breathe deeply, and ask yourself:

• How do I feel right now?

• What do I really want?

• How do I want to live my life?

This simple practice will gradually lead you to profound shifts in your life.

◆ Remember: You Are a Creator, Not Just a Created Being

Never forget this core truth:

You are not just a "created being" but a "creator being."

Life is not something that happens to you, it is something you create.
You are not here to live someone else’s idea of what is right or good.
You are here to live your own truth, to create your own life on your own terms.

Yes, it may require courage.
Yes, it may feel lonely at times.
But know that on the other side of fear lies the life you were meant to live—the life that is uniquely yours.

◆ To Change Is to Return to Your True Self

Changing is not about rejecting who you are now.
It is, in fact, about returning to the truth of who you really are, shedding the layers that no longer serve you.

So, yes, change can be scary.
It can feel uncertain.
But trust that on the other side of this fear is a life filled with joy, authenticity, and alignment.

There is no need to rush.
You don’t have to do it all at once.
But if you feel that inner stir, that desire to change, it’s time to listen.
It’s time to step into your true role as the creator of your life.

◆ The Final Step: Embrace Your Inner Creator

When the time comes for you to make that shift, say this to yourself:

"I am no longer a created being. I am a creator."

In that moment, something profound will begin to shift within you.
A new door will quietly open, and your true life—the life that was always meant for you—will begin to unfold.

This article is just the beginning of your journey.
It’s up to you to take the first step.
Start listening to your heart, honor your emotions, and allow yourself to change in the way that feels most authentic to you.
The path ahead is filled with possibility.

If you want to read more about how to live as your true self or how to overcome fear and limiting beliefs, feel free to check out more articles on this topic.
Change is just the beginning.